2020 has certainly been a year, am I right? I think it’s safe to say that this year has left all of us alone with our thoughts more than we ever expected to be, and that it has its benefits in a lot of ways.
For me, I’ve been able to fully focus on my nutrition degree and learn not only about how to fuel the body in a positive way, but also how to do so in a healthy way. In other words, I’ve learned a lot about diet culture and the dangers of diet culture. In many ways, I’ve been able to reflect on a lot of the posts I’ve had on here and really take a step back and realize that some of the posts I have made in the past have been uneducated, harmful, and stigmitized in a lot of ways.
So all in all, I want to firstly apologize for those posts that promoted diet culture. I never MEANT to do that, but I was very young and niave when I started this blog and I feel into a lot of scams of diet culture myself. Secondly, I want to apologize for not being transparent with you guys. It seems very unfair for me to over the past 6 years, give nutrition advise and talk about food when my relationship with food had been so toxic.
So, I really want to take a moment today to reflect on the last 6 years of Kat Classics and point out some of the things I may have said or done that I should not have, correct some of my wrong doings, and set the tone for what I want the future of this blog to be!
My Personal Dishonesty
I don’t want to go into extreme specifics about this mostly because it is something I am slowly getting better at talking about and to be fair, I think this will deserve it’s own post in the future, but I want to be honest with you guys. During my own weight loss journey, which took place while I was working on this blog, I fell into very bad disordered eating habits.
Looking back, I think the signs were all there and I have had a few posts where you can tell I am eating extremely under calorie needs and working out way to much to sustain any sort of good energy balance. There was a lot of mental problems that went into this disordered eating, which I have gotten the appropriate help for, but some of that had to do with diet culture as well, and I think I played a role in promoting that on this blog as well, which I will talk about in just a minute. Any time I talked about my own diet, I talked about how little I ate and I felt like that was sometimes still too much.
Anyway, I have deleted many of those posts, and I do want to let you guys know that I am doing much better with my eating. And I can also say with certainty that I don’t want to promote those habits going forward. I am sorry for hiding this for so long and I do promise to talk more about this in the future, especially because it is such an important topic to discuss. But that post will deserve a full story and how I got help, so we’ll save it for a later day. If you are curious to follow my recovery my new instagram page Kat_at_Last, does talk a lot about my recovery and you are welcome to follow.
The Diet Culture Trap
There are a few specifics that I can think about on this blog where I gave some awful advise about diet culture. For example, I remember saying to eat ahead of time when going to a picnic so you won’t feel like you want to snack or eat unhealthy foods. I probably suggested drinking more water when you think you’re hungry to quench your thirst instead. And on more than one occasion, I probably suggested the magic number of 1200 calories in order to lose weight. None of this advise is good, but it is what diet culture makes us believe is true.
- When you’re going out to a party or event, eat what you want to eat there and don’t feel like you are guilty for doing it! Your body responds much better to intuitive eating, where you eat what you want to fill a craving or reach satisfaction, opposed to restriction which can leave you feeling like you have missed out and result in cravings that can lead to a binge later in the day. So, at the picnic, if you want a cupcake or a hotdog because that is what you are actually craving, go ahead at eat it. Don’t eat six of them just because you can, but if you feel satisfied after one, rest assured that your body will respond to the fact that you satisfied a craving.
I’ve been slowly learning more about intuitive eating as it’s something I am learning to incorporate in my recovery, so you can expect to see a blog post about that soon! - There is actually no scientific evidence suggesting that thirst can trigger a hunger cue. In fact, thirst cues and hunger cues are two completely separate functions. So, logically, drinking water isn’t going to satisfy the fact that you are hungry. Eating, on the other hand, will. Of course, stay hydrated throughout the day, but don’t think drinking water will magically fill your stomach and make you full.
- While 1200 calories a day might be enough to make SOME people lose weight, this is not the magical number for everyone. In fact, for a lot of people, this is still way too little and can cause metabolic changes that can be more damaging than helpful. There is a lot that goes into determining the number of calories someone needs for weight loss, including current dietary intake, weight, height, gender, and physical activity level, along with the percentage of weight that needs to be lost. So never listen to 1200 calories a day as a magic weight loss number, and instead seek out the advise from a health care professional when determining your own caloric needs. In fact, feel free to message me personally on IG (Kat_at_Last) if you want me to help you figure out your own needs (for real though, I don’t have my degree yet but I’m 8 months from it!!)
The body image stuff
I would like to think that I didn’t do this on this page, but this is something that I have recently come to realize is extremely important for all of us to learn. We tend to see people we haven’t seen in awhile, or people we know who are trying to lose weight, or people who have been on the health grind lately and we make comments on their physical appearance.
On the outside it might seem like telling someone “Wow you look amazing!” or “You look so good, how much weight have you lost?” seems normal and like a great compliment, but comments like this are actually extremely damaging. For me, it was the driving force that made me want to keep losing more and more weight because I could keep deferring attention away from the negative aspects of my life into the fact that I “looked good”. All in all, you don’t know what is going on in someone’s personal life, and you don’t know how damaging complimenting their exterior could be.
Overall, it’s safest to not compliment someone’s body or appearance. Instead you can say things like.
-You look so happy.
-Your smile is radiating
-I love that outfit
I encourage everyone to stop focusing on the body as a form of a compliment. It promotes awful feelings, no matter your size, even if you don’t realize that it is!
Moving forward with the next year of Kat Classics, I am hoping that I am able to use these reflections to post more positive messages about nutrition, food, and body positivity. I hope that is something you guys want to get behind! I’m looking forward to it!
In the comments below, why don’t we share some fun non-body focused compliments that we can start to implement in our day to day lives! I look forward to reading what you come up with!
Until next time,
Kat